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If you’ve recently had a neighbor approach you about splitting the cost of a new fence, or worse, they already started building it and are now asking for money, you’re not alone. This situation comes up more often than you’d think.

Here’s what North Carolina homeowners need to know.

Do You Legally Have to Pay for a Fence You Didn’t Agree To?

In most cases, no. North Carolina does not require you to share the cost of a fence unless you have a written agreement in place before the work begins.

If your neighbor builds a fence entirely on their side of the property line, using their own materials and contractor, that’s considered their private structure. Even if it borders your yard, you’re not obligated to help pay for it.

What About a Shared Fence on the Property Line?

If the fence is being built on the property line, the legal expectation becomes more complicated. Some neighbors choose to split costs voluntarily, but that should be discussed, agreed to, and ideally put in writing before the fence is installed.

If no agreement was made, you generally can’t be forced to pay after the fact, even if the fence crosses onto the shared line.

How to Handle Fence Cost Disagreements

  • Ask for a property survey if you’re unsure where the line is
  • Communicate in writing if you don’t want to contribute
  • Stay calm and polite — escalating the situation can cause long-term tension 
  • Check HOA rules — some neighborhoods have specific policies on shared fences

Tip from a Local Fence Installer

At Concord Fence, we always recommend that neighbors discuss fence plans openly and early. Whether you’re building your own fence or considering sharing costs, it’s best to have clear communication and a written agreement. That way, nobody ends up surprised or stuck with unexpected bills.

FAQs About Neighbor Fence Costs in North Carolina
  • Can my neighbor make me pay for their fence in North Carolina? No. Unless you signed a written agreement before installation, your neighbor cannot legally force you to share the cost of a fence they built.
  • What if the fence is on the property line? If a fence is built on the shared property line, costs can be split only if both parties agreed ahead of time. Without an agreement, you’re not obligated to pay.
  • Do I need a property survey before building a fence? Yes, a survey is recommended to avoid disputes. It ensures the fence is placed correctly and helps confirm whether it’s a private or shared fence.
  • Can HOA rules override North Carolina fence laws? Sometimes. If you live in an HOA community, your HOA may have specific rules on shared fences. Always check with your HOA before starting a project.

Final Word

Unless you signed a written agreement or the fence was court-ordered, your neighbor cannot legally force you to pay for a fence that benefits only their property. If you’re unsure about your situation, it might be worth speaking with your HOA or a real estate attorney.

Neighbor situations are tough but honestly we hear about them often. Take a look at our residential fencing page for some ideas and things to consider when deciding on the right barrier between you and your neighbors.